When was the last time you read? No, I don’t mean textbooks and no, your latest issue of Cosmo, doesn’t count. I mean a good book that you could curl up in bed with at the end of the day that keeps you flipping from page to page? Whether you’re a college undergrad running from class to class or you’re well into your twenties working the 9-to-5 shift, at the end of the day, sometimes it’s hard to catch up on leisurely reading. From chick lit to well-being books, here are the top ten books every girl should read in her twenties.
Confessions of a Shopaholic (Shopaholic, #1) by Sophie Kinsella
I know it’s tempting to skip the 300+ pages and just rent out the movie (with popcorn), but Sophie Kinsella is a rich and sassy writer and reading her books is like hearing a best friend tell you about her day. If you’ve ever been tempted to buy to-die-for pumps or that lingerie set in the window of that upscale department store (and every girl has) that you just couldn’t afford, you’ll love this book. It teaches you a thing or two about love and life, not to mention personal finances (can you imagine being thousands of dollars in debt over scarves and shoes…? Yikes).
Pride and Prejudice by Jane Austen
If there’s anything we’ve learned from chick lit, it was most likely thought up first by Jane Austen. I know, I know — again, you’d probably rather rent the movie (and drool over a dark, brooding Matthew Macfadyen a.k.a. Mr. Darcy), but the Keira Knightley on-screen version just doesn’t do the book justice. Elizabeth Bennett didn’t let stiff-necked tea parties, corsets, or the social strata of the 19th century get in the way of love. And, she got the guy in the end. With a little sass and a lot of perseverance, you can get your happily ever after, after all.
Girls in White Dresses by Jennifer Close
You might have skimmed over the cover of this book in the shelves at Barnes and Noble recently, but you should rethink this best-selling chick-lit novel. Girls in White Dresses follows the lives of three twenty-something best friends — Isabella, Mary, and Lauren — who embark on their separate life journeys. We watch them through the big-girl realizations we all must make as we enter adulthood — that BFF friendships are not always forever, fairytale romances are few and far-between, and you may not get that dream job you always wanted — all in their twenties. It’s a novel that captures every detail of life in a girl’s twenties and teaches you that you can get through anything with the right amount of heart and sarcasm.
The Girl’s Guide to Hunting and Fishing by Melissa Bank
For those of you girls who are wincing at the title, you can relax… it actually has nothing to do with hunting or fishing. In The Girls’ Guide to Hunting and Fishing, Melissa Bank’s witty short stories, which follow her from age 14 to well into her thirties, follow heroine Jane Rosenal’s search for what every girl wants in her twenties — a steady boyfriend, a fulfilling career, and self-identity. Throughout the book, Jane tries to make sense of her life by looking to parents and brothers, friends, and ex-boyfriends (not to mention she scours the self-help section) in search of the answer to explain it all. But as we know, there are no answers. And even though she wrote it in the ‘90s, Bank captures what it’s like to leave behind the teen years and be a woman in your twenties today.
Bitches on a Budget: Sage Advice for Surviving Tough Times in Style by Rosalyn Hoffman
If you’re a bonafide fashionista but your budget is constantly cramping your style, then consider this your go-to guide to personal finances. Wouldn’t we all love to live in a world where you could buy a pair of Christian Louboutin heels and that hot-off-the-runway LBD without a second thought? Blogger Rosalyn Hoffman shows you how to pull together chic, affordable styles and without breaking the bank.
What I Know Now: Letters to My Younger Self by Ellyn Spragins
There’s a lot of things I would tell myself if I could go back in time — things like don’t stress about that job interview, or it’s OK to forfeit a Friday night for myself instead of the kegger party every once in a while, or how that exam I failed in Introduction to Logic freshman semester is not the end of the world (despite how I felt at the time). So if you could write a letter to your younger self, what would you say? This question is what inspired writer Ellyn Spragins to approach 41 women, from singer Macy Gray to designer Eileen Fisher and poet Maya Angelou, about what they wish they had known when they were younger. Their collection of letters teaches us their learned life lessons for twenty-something ladies, but without Mom’s preachy, “I told you so.”
The Joy Luck Club by Amy Tan
We’ve all had those moments with Mom — she embarrasses you or judges you, or she just generally doesn’t understand you. The Joy Luck Club is about four women who immigrate from their homeland of China to America to make better lives for themselves. Their daughters, having grown up in America, don’t see eye to eye with their mothers who are culturally and generationally different. You may not always see eye to eye with your mom, but if you read this novel, you might come to better understand that there’s a reason why she’ll always be your best friend.
What Did I Do Wrong? by Liz Pryor
As girls, we always like to say that we’ll be best friends forever (BFFs!), but as every girl knows, that’s not always the case. A break-up with your BFF is always more devastating than a romantic break-up. You’re not alone — Liz Pryor understands you perfectly. After her bestie suddenly stopped returning phone calls and kept blowing her off, magazine columnist Liz Pryor made it her mission to figure out why girls break up with us. If you’re going through a similar situation where a friend has basically dumped you even if without reason, this is a must-read!
20-Something, 20-Everything: A Quarter-life Woman’s Guide to Balance and Direction by Christine Hassler
I remember on my 21st birthday. I was out with my friends knocking back margaritas and eating too much pizza when I stopped and thought to myself, “Oh my god, I’m 21? When did that even happen?” I was experiencing what I guess you might call a quarter-life crisis. Author Christine Hassler explores through her book what it means to be a twenty-something girl and how to answer those pesky, if not a little scary, questions — Who am I? What do I want? How do I get it?
Single: The Art of Being Satisfied, Fulfilled and Independent by Judy Ford
Breaking up with a boyfriend really sucks, doesn’t it? But after late night talks with your bestie on the phone and after that pint of Ben and Jerry’s is scooped clean, you start to realize that being single is not the end of the world… in fact, it might be the start of something better! For all the twenty-something single ladies out there (cue Beyonce), this book reiterates how great it is to be independent.
What are some of your favorite books?
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183 comments
Jordan says:
Jan 17, 2012
These are great recommendations! I think the only one I’ve actually read is Confessions of a Shopaholic — which was equal parts fun-to-read and frustrating — but I’ll put the others on my list!
Ilana Falick says:
Jan 17, 2012
definitely putting a few of these on my list and another that EVERY woman should read: Think: Straight-Talk for Women to Stay Smart in a Dumbed Down World by Lisa Bloom. it is AMAZING
Jessica Hartley says:
Apr 12, 2012
Why men love bitches is an excellent read for young women. I buy it for graduation presents.
Kiera says:
Apr 22, 2012
I was very hesitant about this book because of the title, HOWEVER, it is a very empowering book! I teaches women to respect themselves in a world that reigns “nice” supreme.
Camie says:
Aug 7, 2012
I was hesitant also, but after hearing great things, gave it to my sweet daughter…who loved it and passed it on to several of her friends. It’s one that I think you could read several times and gain some insight and empowerment when needed!
Jessica says:
Apr 30, 2012
LOVE Why Men Love Bitches! Have read it, passed it on to my newly single mother, my friend and re-read it again. Also had many friends buy it on their own because of all the good I spoke of it! Don’t let the title throw you off! It is every enlightening. Ladies: don’t be walked on! Hold your own in your relationships. You may think you are but just read….
Juanita says:
Apr 23, 2013
I definately agree, “Why Men Love Bitches”, is so empowering. After reading this book and following the advice both me and my girlfriend are both engaged. I finally saw what I was doing wrong. Every woman should read it!
Alex says:
Apr 16, 2012
The Thirteenth Tale
Girl with the Pearl Earring
Cat on a Hot Tin Roof (play, but still great)
Common Sense says:
Apr 17, 2012
Too bad this list just perpetuates every lie about women; which, in fact, Jane Austen sought to undercut herself. We can’t control ourselves at the mall, finding the man is the ultimate source of satisfaction, and that we need a book to convince us independence is OK. Also, any woman who calls another woman a “bitch” just promulgates the great conspiracy that has convinced women that we’re competing against ourselves, so the men don’t have to work so hard at subjugating us.
Dea says:
Apr 17, 2012
Thank you, that’s exactly my thoughts.
amanda says:
Apr 17, 2012
EXACTLY! There are some unbelievably amazing books out there… and this is the list they come up with?!
Phoebe says:
Apr 22, 2012
I was trying to figure out how to say exactly that. Thank you!
Also, I’m fed up with people making assumptions as to women’s interests. I for one would actually would much rather go fishing than upscale window shopping.
stop being so negitive says:
Apr 30, 2012
If you read one page out of the book you would know it has nothing to do with actually being a bitch…
Megs says:
May 30, 2012
Thank you! I was actually offended by this list. I dont consider myself a “feminist”, nor do i tend to “take stands”. However, I do like who I am, and who I am is an intelligent 20-something woman. This list really makes women out to be stupid-little air heads. If someone “should” read something, it should be something that allows you to see the world a little differently than you did before. Maybe books on science or history, or some great classics, some science fiction and fantasy. Books that make you think, that allow you to relate to others outside pre-teen girls. The kind of young women who only read cosmo and the above books are going to be pretty vapid indeed. And for the record, will very likely be unable to relate to men at all. Is this the type of woman anyone would want to aspire to be? Boring and vain? Eh…I guess so.
To Each Their Own says:
Jul 7, 2012
Maybe you should stop and think for a moment that these books don’t mean the same to each person. You, for instance, feel you know who you are and because of that find these sorts of books “offensive” when what it really is is that you are in a different mindset that the person/people who put this list together. Most young women are struggling to figure out who they are for many different reasons and if reading a book that people believe make women out to be, quote “stupid-little air heads” then that is what people are going to see.
I guess my point is if you don’t agree with the list fine that’s your opinion. My suggestion to you is to make your own list and post it. Do not bash on this one just because you don’t understand it.
Amanda says:
Jul 28, 2012
Couldn’t agree more. I wouldn’t like a book list about women fishing but I would be *oh my dear FAN ME* offended, for the love of God. If this list offends you, stop being so damn sensitive. Good grief.
I however LOVE window shopping and can’t wait to add some of these books to my reading list
heather says:
Aug 21, 2012
Dosomeresearchpeople says:
Sep 27, 2012
Well unless you have read them all this is a little judgmental. Also if you think you should have equal pay and be able to vote, you are in fact a feminist. Which is actually a good thing. People just toss that word around perpetuating this nonsense.
ella says:
May 12, 2013
Why don’t you consider yourself a feminist? To be a feminist means to believe in equality across the board, regardless of gender, which in this day and age, is not a radical notion. And judging by your post, it sounds like you’re ideologies line up with feminism considering that feminist’s have fought to break down the very gender role stereotypes you mentioned such as women only reading cosmo, or women being air heads with no interest in science. Maybe I’m nitpicking but it seems that many women nowadays will refuse to call themselves “feminists” even when they believe in the same basic ideas of feminism.
Sam says:
Jun 25, 2012
I agree, this list left me very disappointed and discouraged about our generation if these are the books we should be reading. I realize this list is from the perspective of one person, but I am glad to see there are other 20-somethings out there who feel the way I do.
For any of you who enjoy science fiction there is the fantastically brilliant author Octavia E. Butler. Her books are smart, and well written, and it may sound sort of cheesy but I always feel inspired at the end of each book. Sort of like if Harry Potter was written geared toward PhDs. Good and Evil are never as clear cut, and there are more true to life struggles, just set in more fantastical settings.
(ps – I think everyone, no matter what their age or sex, should read Harry Potter!)
nancy says:
Aug 22, 2012
Thank you so much for remembering Butler. Since she died, I miss the book she might have written.
Mary Menley says:
Nov 6, 2012
Easy to say after you’re 21. Victory by Subjugation. I think I’ll write THAT book. Men are too fragile to be dominated any other way, silly.
Kate says:
Jul 8, 2012
Yes!! I read this list and after seeing Kinsella’s name at the top, immediately disregarded it as utter tripe. I read the first three (only three at that point) Shopaholic books when I was 19 living in New York City. Even then, I recognized those books as being vapid and insulting to my sex. After reading them, I picked up Yann Martel’s Life of Pi and loved it (and subsequently put a little more trust back into Bestseller lists).
Kate says:
Nov 11, 2012
oh pleaseee, get off your high horse
Kelsey says:
Oct 9, 2012
^I don’t think I could say damn right any louder
Becky says:
Oct 26, 2012
Exactly what I was going to say. The majority of these focus on the things that make women stereotypes. I only see one book on here that would show an empowering female heroine. Honestly.
Sarah says:
Nov 30, 2012
Yes yes yes. Thank you. I was reading the list, hoping someone said this in the comments.
I hate shopping, I dress like the lesbian I am, and you’d never ever find me with an issue of Cosmo. I’d much rather be hiking wild trails with my camera than drooling over $300 shoes. I think $20 is too much for shoes. This list actually offended me deeply!
linz says:
Dec 3, 2012
Oh shut up
Taylor says:
Dec 7, 2012
As a 20 year old, I think this list of books is great, maybe its not “schollarly enough” or whatever. But sometimes you need a book to be like your best friend, to complain about and to just make you feel better. Life of Pi yes is an amazing book. Just because I agree and like some of the books on this list does not make me a non feminist or an airhead. I have more than one interest. Sometimes you read based on different moods and emotions. If you do not like this list stop bitching and go back to your high and mighty books.
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Emily says:
Apr 18, 2012
As a single, 23 year old, jobless, recent college grad, I really appreciate this list of books. I have only read Pride and Prejudice but the other books sound exactly like what women my age should look to as reassuring books. It’s nice to read something where others my age don’t have their lives together and are working on figuring out what they’re doing. I can easily relate to these books even just based on the description. And I know so many other women my age that would relate to these books as well. I think this is a wonderful book list.
Now if you’re looking for list of super sophisticated novels to read…you won’t find many that women my age want to look for deeper meaning about things they’re going through. Not saying we can’t be deep thinkers, but sometimes it is very appropriate to read a more shallow book to help us through the problems and situations we all know will eventually be fixed.
Kline says:
Apr 18, 2012
Thank God common sense, I was terrified of the idea that no other woman felt that way. People looking for good books try out: Zeitoun, Mafia Kingfish, All the Kings Men, A Confeseracy of Dunces, Henrietta lacks, Dr. Mary’s Monkey, The Secret History… And if you want to challenge your inner CEO eccentric side: read Steve jobs biography.
Miranda says:
Aug 16, 2012
Zeitoun was utter GARBAGE. Hated the book from start to finish and was told what a WONDERFUL example of literature it was by the teacher who forced the class to read. Really good books would more in line with things like The Blue Sword by Robin McKinley. Her books always feature strong women.
CFG says:
Apr 18, 2012
This just sounds like a list that would be IN cosmo… Women in their twenties aren’t necessarily “lost” or in crises if they haven’t married or ‘settled down’. How about some recommendations of intelligent literature for a woman in her twenties? This list is worthless.
Olivia says:
Apr 19, 2012
I think this list is directed to the majority. Which may mean that it should be similar to that of a list one might find is cosmo. Not to say that everyone will like it, just that it may be directed at a wider and less intellectual audience. I think it is meant to be a two-birds kind of reading recommendation. An easy read that also so happens to make one think a little about what they want (relationship or not).
I agree there could be some different titles here. For sure. But they aren’t wrong for everyone either. Everyone has individual needs from a book. Especially those who read very little. That one book that person might read that season has to do double or triple duty being fun, enjoyable, easy, and thought provoking as that persons needs change. So perhaps a mis-mash of stereotypes and fluff mixed into some general advise isn’t a bad bet for some to trade US Weekly or People magazine for. Which sadly is what too few of our peers are doing in my opinion.
Molly says:
Apr 18, 2012
Ugh, hate this list. There are beautiful love stories out there that are NOT some piece of dumb-down chick lit. If you like it, that’s fine; it can be entertaining. But let’s not pretend it’s part of the canon. 20-something girls are smarter than that.
And in my twenties, I didn’t need some self-help book to tell me that I’m fine without a man or how to find myself. If you need that, then you might also want to get a therapist. Seriously. Help like that doesn’t come from a book.
Actually, I hate the whole 20-something list concept all together. Put together a list of literature that tackles relevant issues to all women…I actually think Pride and Prejudice and the Joy Luck Club are a good start. And stay away from the chick-lit.
Nada says:
Sep 19, 2012
pretty sure people don’t need therapy just because they read a self-help book. Get off your high horse, congratulations for knowing EVERYTHING in your twenties.
Courtney W. says:
Sep 29, 2012
I’LL go ahead and just do what you did:
I don’t agree with this list, ughhh omg, I hate it. I can’t believe you think I would actually read this shit. [Insert obscure book title] is a much better book. [Insert literary classic title] deserves to be on this list. Furthermore, regardless of your right to put together a list of books that you think twenty-somethings should read and I, having no obligation to comment on such a list, I am just going to go on and criticize the shit out of you, your opinions, thoughts, and ideas.
I think that sums up about every fucking idiot on here bashing this list.
Would I read these books? Probably not, but…I am not personally offended that this list was put together.
Barb says:
Oct 30, 2012
Once you start the vulgarity and name calling, it negates the rest of your comment, can’t take you seriously Courtney W.
Lorraine says:
Nov 22, 2012
Well said
Rachel B says:
Nov 12, 2012
I’m so with you there. This list was just disappointing. I like adventurous, swashbuckling novels, like the brilliant ones written by Rafael Sabatini, or actually deep-thought-provoking books like A Canticle for Leibowitz. The best books are often those that you have to dig to find, not those on the best-seller list. Pride and Prejudice is alright, but it’s not really my style. Give me L. M. Montgomery, Stephen Lawhead, Terry Goodkind, C. S. Lewis, and Gene Stratton Porter anyday…but I must say, it’s doubtful that any of their books will end up on a list such as this. Still, I was hoping that at least some of these would look appealing to this book lover.
Sam says:
Apr 19, 2012
I’m with you Emily. I think these books are much more fun and comforting to read when feeling low. As a graduate with a degree in English, if I wanted a bunch of sophisticated books I would just repeat my undergrad. This list isn’t meant to satisfy your need of Pulitzer prize books; it is meant to help girls in their 20′s laugh off the stupid drama and problems we deal with. If you don’t like the list, don’t read the books. However, sometimes knowledge comes from unexpected places. Don’t knock it till you’ve read it.
Emily says:
May 5, 2012
THANK YOU!
Laura says:
Aug 28, 2012
Sam & Emily, I completely agree. I’m turning 25 at the end of this week, single, living with my parents, unemployed with a BS in Biology, but can’t get a job because apparently I chose the wrong major for my career choice, though it was as close as I could get and I have experience.
Right now, in the midst of job applications, and having to live with my 60-something parents (who I love and are wonderful to letting me live here), I don’t want to read War & Peace or Atlas Shrugged. I want to read complete “Crap.” Something that won’t challenge my brain, but something that will also keep me in touch with reality. I’ll admit I’ve read 50 Shades and similar books, as well as the Sookie Stackhouse saga, Twilight, and Vampire Diaries. I love HP, and I love Jane Austen.
To me this book list is an all encompassing list: a Classic, some no-brainers, some self-helpers (at a time when many educated women are finding life not going the right way 100% of the time). Something for everyone. If there isn’t a book here that appeals to you, by all means share that, since there may be someone else in your boat, but you don’t need to tear down the list because it doesn’t apply to you. Congratulations on having your life together and being able to focus on “better quality” literature at this point in your life. I’d love to be there, but right now I’m in the middle of Sophie Kinsella’s I’ve Got Your Number thanks to my Nook hook up to the local Library.
Tiffany says:
Nov 1, 2012
Your comment was absolutely perfect!
LoriAnne says:
Jan 26, 2013
AHHHH!!!!! AMEN, SAM! WONDERFUL!!
Kel says:
Apr 19, 2012
This is exactly what it says it is. A list for every “girl” in her twenties. Those of us who consider ourselves grown women should probably look elsewhere for our entertainment.
Courtney says:
Sep 29, 2012
GO elsewhere, “grown woman”.
LoriAnne says:
Jan 26, 2013
HAHAHAHAHA hop on your high horse and trot off into some classy, women empowering boring as all get-up peice of fine literature and let us little girls actually not take life so seriously that we have to spend our evening bashing a book list and lecturing the less intellectually fortunate. HAHAHAHAHAHA
Olivia says:
Apr 19, 2012
I think everyone has their own preference for reading, but the author of this post specifically said this list was for the kind of book one reads before bed in that little bit of down time. For some readers that isn’t really the time to pick up a more substantial read.
It may not be the Need for “help” that draws a person to reading something. It may be the voice of the author, regardless of the topic. For example an open person giving you advise and discussing issues many girls/women deal with, to me is very similar to talking with a trusted friend. To further my opinion, due to moving and graduating, I seem to be shedding said friends like a husky in august. So even though I can very well choose a more evolved title, a nice read of a less complex nature attracts me as well.
Additionally, out of the majority, I don’t think many females my age actually pick up books to read other than fictions turned to movies. So isn’t it kind of a good idea to recommend reading slightly more meaningful literature to more twenty something women regardless of whether it’s a title you would read or not?
I would recommend this list to many of my peers, even without reading them. Simply because I think reading is an important part of building ones self, whether it’s chic-lit or scholarly literature.
Emily says:
May 5, 2012
Very, very well said. “I would recommend this list to many of my peers, even without reading them. Simply because I think reading is an important part of building ones self whether it’s chic-lit or scholarly literature.”
Kaela says:
Apr 20, 2012
Their Eyes Were Watching God is a great book for women.
Kathy says:
Jul 3, 2012
Completely agree! I loved that book so much, I can’t believe that it wasn’t required reading when I was in high school.
Linda says:
Apr 21, 2012
I would add Sense & Sensibility by Jane Austen
Jocelyn says:
Apr 23, 2012
I bought 20-something, 20-everything when I was 22. And I have read in twice a year since (I am now 27). Great, great book!
Kate says:
Apr 23, 2012
I am a girl, well into her 20s and could not disagree with this list more! It makes me so angry!!! Ugg, Jane Austen and Chick lit, no thank you! So this is, in my opinion, 10 books everyone should read ever.
1. House of Leaves by Mark Z. Danielewski – its just an experience you need to have really, unsettling but brilliant. This book actually forces you to turn the page, even if you don’t want to. It will take you over.
2. Room by Emma Donoghue – another experience you have to have. I actually had a physical reaction during the scene where they try to escape – proper heart-pumping, out of breath moment. I stayed in the bath for about 2 hours reading this – got cold and wrinkled but it was worth it!
3. You Shall Know Your Velocity by Dave Eggers – To learn the real value of money.
4. The Yellow Wallpaper by Charlotte Perkins Gilman – One of my favourite short stories…just don’t stare at your wallpaper for too long!
5. Cloud Atlas by David Mitchell – totally deserved the hype…brilliantly complicated, just don’t let the first chapter put you off and don’t be afraid to flick forwards and backwards to remind yourself whats going on in each section – that’s the beauty of it, to feel like you’re drowing in these strange worlds.
6. There But For The by Ali Smith (or anything by Ali Smith) – The characters are amazing – I loved the chapter with the old lady flitting through her past and present, and also the scene with the infuriating dinner party. I just love her voice really.
7. Everything is Illuminated by Jonathan Safran Foer – just a fantastic narrator, it even translates well to film (unlike Extremely Loud and Incredibly Close)
8. Life of Pi by Yann Martel – although I haven’t finished it yet, it’s quite brilliant. I love the technical details of surviving on a lifeboat – even with a Bengal tiger!
9. Slaugherhouse 5 by Kurt Vonnegut – yes, it was banned in Footloose, but surely thats even more of a reason to read it! It’s bleak and stark and horrible but also strange and wonderful and you have to read it, now, go!
10. The Bell Jar by Sylvia Plath – although this was written in the 50s it still feels so current. Young girls trying to carve a path in the big city, only for it to go horribly wrong and have to have electric shock treatment…this sense that we feel of wanting to belong in the huge world but also being stuck inside this tiny, frustrating mind. I think I’ve read it at least 3 times…now I feel the need for another go.
Michelle Armenta says:
May 6, 2012
Fantastic book choices! I had the same reaction when I read Room. It was an incredible book even when it hurt to read.
Lexie says:
Jun 17, 2012
Thanks for the suggestions!! I just requested most of them from the library! Can’t wait to read them!
Via says:
Apr 23, 2012
Where is Joan Didion?
Jillian says:
Apr 24, 2012
NO.
L says:
Apr 24, 2012
All the haters are acting equally as ignorant as the accused. This is clearly a self help type list, not a fabulous fiction list. Don’t worry about it…and read something else. I for one have plenty of reasons to want to read these books and I think that means I DO want to be an independent, budget-wise, conscience, and smart woman. Move along if you already are and leave me to get some advice. Might I add that I love style and girly things and chop fish heads for my job? To each their own dear friends.
Jami says:
Apr 25, 2012
Preach it, sister!
Emily says:
May 5, 2012
I couldn’t agree more with you!
LoriAnne says:
Jan 26, 2013
Laura says:
Apr 25, 2012
If you don’t like the genre/intellectual depth of the list, then don’t read the books. It’s not rocket science.
Laura says:
Apr 27, 2012
After reading this list I am rather insulted by what I am supposed to be interested in as a 24 year old. By looking over this list, I should be a love crazed moron who is mainly incapable in accomplishing anything but searching for a man … oh wait I forgot theres a book for that too and a book to calm me down after I inevitably screw that up too. I think this book list is more for the 13-15 year old range who are still in the boy obsessed craze and think Twilight is great literature …..
Kris says:
Apr 28, 2012
Yeah… I’m 26 and have been happily married for 6 years. We have a beautiful 4 year old boy. I’m a little beyond “independence rulez!” books and “my best friend hates me sniffle!” books.
I’ll happily read chick-lit if I feel like I need some mindlessness in my life though, so I’ve added White Dresses and Shopaholic to my book list. “What I Know Now” looks fantastic too.
Chelsea says:
Apr 28, 2012
I don’t hate this list because it’s not “intellectual enough” for me. I hate it because it perpetuates the stereotype that at my age, I should be worried about my fashion, my BFFs (which, if you’re over 20 and still calling people BFF, you’re still a child), and how to be an independent “bitch.” This list just caters to mopey, shallow girls with no depth to their lives and tells other girls that that’s okay.
Sad.
LG says:
Apr 29, 2012
Holy cow people! No one is forcing anyone to read this list! If you dont like it, don’t read it. Simple as that. Why do you think you need to come on here and gripe about one persons list of enjoyable books!? Be mature women and read what you want, but don’t make one person feel bad for what they like. I am amazed that all of you grown women let yourself get so mad at a blog post that shares books to read for ones pleasure.
BEACH READER says:
Apr 30, 2012
THANK YOU! JESS AND LG. COULDN’T AGREE MORE… AND BOTTOM LINE- IF YOU DON’T LIKE THE LIST.. DON’T READ IT.
Jess says:
Apr 29, 2012
My thoughts exactly, LG. Also, when people get in this comment section and use big words to make other people feel small, I’m less concerned about my peers being shallow or silly and more concerned with them being mean, bitter, and too smart for anyone who wants a fun summer beach read. If anyone needs to grow up, it’s the people that comment on book lists saying how above it all they are.
Lastly, imagine this: a nice girl with a college degree reads this books list, writes down some of the titles for future reference, then scrolls down to the comments and is told that she’s dumb for what she likes to read. Good job, ladies.
K says:
May 2, 2012
Love it, Jess. Can’t agree more. I can read a literary masterpiece and enjoy it…or some girly help book or novel. To each his own!
And for the record…I just read “He’s Just Not That Into You” as a light read on my iPhone before bed and realized…Guess what world..it is okay to be 20 something, single, and not let life be about guys despite the constant pressure of small town life demanding you settle down and make babies right away. Books are something different to everyone. Be it an escape from reality (Sigh…Harry Potter), A slap in the face (He’s Just Not That Into You), a get ya thinking (Their Eyes Were Watching God) or whatever. Grow Up!
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K says:
May 2, 2012
Hahahahah. AMAZING. Let us all show what intellectual gals we really are. Again, “10 Books Every Girl Should Read in her 20′s”. NOT “10 Books Every Woman Should Read for Mental Stimulation”. Not “10 Books Every Grown Woman Should Read”.
I am 25, single, college graduate, own my own house, have a steady job for 3 years as a teacher, and living in small town America. I think this list is just fine. I love “Their Eyes Were Watching God” as much as most ladies who have read it…but I think this list is aimed not at the book nerds of the world (I am one, trust me)…but perhaps at the majority of girls hitting their 20′s and realizing “SHIT, my life is NOT like I imagined and that is OKAY”
As a teacher (who sucks at grammar I know…so save your smart remarks) and avid reader I think anything to get people reading is great. Guess what people, the more kids see adults read – the more likely they are to pick up a book. I work with kiddos who live in an age of instant gratification so as I tell my students “R-E-A-D a B-O-O-K!”
Tiffany says:
Nov 1, 2012
Kudos! Perfect comment!
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Sarah says:
May 9, 2012
I’ve read a couple of the books on this list, am not interested in others, but that is okay. I think the real purpose of this list is to help young women find a book they enjoy, and to just READ! Reading is such a wonderful thing – I would be truly lost without my love for exploring books, and I think it is great to encourage people to turn to books as a source of entertainment, comfort, and advice. People like different kinds of books, I’m just glad when people read.
And now off topic – but drool worthy Matthew Macfadyen? HELLO have you seen the Colin Firth P&P?? We can talk about drooling THEN.
Shannon says:
May 14, 2012
Ugh. This appeared on my Pinterest board, so I checked it out. This list is vapid and superficial. If that’s your bag baby, then more power to you. I could list fifty other titles that any twenty-something person could cling to in crisis without reinforcing the negative stereotypes about gender, class and ethnicity. There’s more going on in our world than white girl problems…
Katie says:
May 16, 2012
I think that lists such as yours bring about good conversation and even more to think about. I also think all of the UGHs and other rude comments are unnecessary not to mention unhealthy. Relax and move on people.
no says:
May 17, 2012
I would have titled this “10 Fun beach reads for your 15 yr old daughter”
if you’re in your 20s and just learning how to wisely budget your money, its too late.
Sarah says:
May 24, 2012
what a terrible list. Go read a real book, not a bunch of “chick-lit” and bullshit self-help books.
Kayla T. says:
Jun 3, 2012
I just think anyone who says “I could write a better list” or “there are so many books which would better represent women in their twenties” or other such comments, should venture out and write their lists! If these women are so intent on being heard, and sharing their opinions, they should look to doing so on their own blog!
That isn’t to say that a certain level of criticism is fair in the comments of a blog post. The original poster of this blog post should be proud that her list has had so much publicity, good or bad. However, I feel that if you think you can write a better list, write it. Empty threats and classless critiques aren’t all that impressive and do not leave any of you nay-sayers looking all that intelligent, after all. A list of your own book recommendations would be a service to others looking for a good, more “intellectual” read and would be a more productive use of your lip.
Thanks.
Amanda says:
Jun 7, 2012
What a great idea, Kayla T. I went ahead and did just what you recommended: I made my own list, with reasons why I made the changes I did! To all the people suggesting that those of us with critiques were trying to make this into something too intellectual (as if that’s ever a shameful thing,) I think you’d find that my suggestions, for instance, are neither pretentious nor esoteric.
As I have no intentions of spamming this post, anyone who is interested in my changes can see them at my blog, which is linked through my name.
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Paige says:
Jun 15, 2012
I’d say Just Listen by Sarah Dessen is a great book for any female to read. It really gives you a different perspective on things and is written very well. Another book that everyone should read is 13 Reasons Why. It makes you think more about things you say and do that you might not have thought of before.
MARpaN8iv says:
Jun 18, 2012
As a mother of an incredibly well-read 24-year-old woman with her Master’s Degree and two teenaged daughters, I like this list. C’mon people – there is more to life than just Proust and Angelou! Sometimes you need *lighter reading* to go with your Ben&Jerry’s or your weekends at the beach! Sometimes you need to read a book to learn for yourself you’re not *nearly* as screwed up as you think you are (or could be!)just to feel better about yourself. And, yes, sometimes we can be “book smart but common-sense stupid” and need to learn life’s little lessons in whatever way possible!
This list is not going to be a panacea for everyone’s unfulfilled needs in their 20′s – no list will do that. It’s a start; it’s a conversation starter. But to let it denigrate into name calling and one-upsmanship? That’s reverting to high school; in that case, you need to read “Queen Bees and Wannabees” by Rosalind Wiseman just to find out why you’re still in that mentality and how to grow beyond it.
I wouldn’t take any off this list because I think they all have value in some light to different people at different times. But one can always add more books to a list, since I don’t think we should ever stop reading, right? The only book I’d add is Yann Martel’s “The Life of Pi”. Its a book I think everyone should read regardless of age or gender.
You can all continue with your character assassination if that is your true desire, or you can get cracking on this book list and find out if this jump starts you on a whole new path… the choice is, as always, yours.
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'Stina says:
Jun 23, 2012
I think that many of the people out there whining about the “Confessions” being on this list a
Have clearly never read it. Yes, it can be EXTREMELY frustrating to listen to her go out and buy the stuff when she doesn’t have the money, but I toward the end there is this GREAT, super-empowering moment (that is more than just a short moment). I thought the list was pretty balanced over all. Some classics, some contemporary pieces, a little self-help, because who among us doesn’t need a little help in life. And like many people said, no one is forcing you to read the books. Quit whining.
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LitGirl says:
Jun 29, 2012
For those of you who thought the list was a bit shallow…here are some suggestions with a bit more bite:
Female Chauvinist Pigs: Women and the Rise of Raunch Culture by Ariel Levy
Autobiography of a Face by Lucy Grealy
Oryx and Crake by Margaret Atwood (or anything by her)
Loved the other suggestions people were posting too…so awesome to see women passionate about books!
Brittanie says:
Jul 3, 2012
You should add Defining the Decade by Meg Jay. Its a book about how your 20′s define your whole life. Good read! Very thought provoking.
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Brittany says:
Jul 7, 2012
Count of monte cristo by Alexandre Dumas because it is amazing and Atlas Shrugged by Ann Rand. Atlas will give you a new perspective and really make you think about the world around you
T says:
Jul 10, 2012
These are all terrible books! That I read as an early tween by the way. This is the ultimate dumbing down of the twenty something women. honestly.
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Anonymous says:
Jul 16, 2012
Oh my gosh ladies. It’s just a list of some books that someone thought were good and she was suggesting to women. If you don’t agree with it, then move on. I don’t think it calls for an uproar! I think the people that can learn to let go of things are the ones in the right place. The ones who are offended by it and make a big deal about things as little as this are the ones who have the issues. lol
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Dona Fling says:
Jul 21, 2012
Let’s not forget about Barbara Kingsolver and her many conributions to good reading!
Cidney says:
Jul 24, 2012
For those bashing the list: I’ve read these books. I’m 19. And I enjoyed the list. I love to shop. I love to go to the shooting range. I read books like Confessions of a Shopaholic and other “preteen crap” and guess what. I LOVED every second of them. After going to school, working, and living through my own problems it is AMAZING to sit down and read something I can just enjoy. But just because I LOVE my romances and “stupid airhead” books does not make me an idiot. It simply tells you I need a break. I have to read old Shakespeare, thoughtful sciences essays, and text books for class. Personally I found this list at the perfect time. I lost a great guy but with Single I remembered a few things that helped me through it. Confessions of a Shopaholic I simply like because it was a break from my life. Her issues were solved by the last page while mine are still going. This book was a great escape. So just because I read this list and enjoyed it does not mean I am a blonde air head with nothing better to do then swipe a credit card. It just means that I needed the self-help book, I needed the stupid teen story. Thanks for the list Alexandra.
Ashley says:
Jul 27, 2012
I’ve only began to venture into P&P before I found this list…..but really airheads….and dulll women…..
WHY WOULD YOU WANT TO PUT WOMEN DOWN?
Women can read these books as well as science, history, etc…..
Maybe the bashers didn’t have enough educative reading through their high school/college/graduate studies……..hmmmmmm so sad for you….
Enjoy yourself….leave others alone and let them do the same….
or just have your opinion as you are allowed, but seriously WHY PUT DOWN OTHER WOMEN…..JUST WONDERING?
Mary says:
Jul 27, 2012
I think people would be less upset by this list if it wasn’t titled “10 Books EVERY Girl Should Read in Her Twenties.” No, they’re not something EVERY girl should read. They’re suggestions for people who might like those types of books…others need not apply. That’s what is really irking people.
This is not a list that speaks to me, nor did it when I was even in my teens. Since I was a teen I love Shakespeare. I also loved and still love C.S. Lewis and J.R.R Tolkien. Love Ayn Rand. To Kill a Mockingbird and The Great Gatsby are two of my favorite books ever. And considering I was married at age 19, being called a “girl” while in my 20s, suggesting that I was and am not a woman, would be equally offensive. Suggest all the books you want, but have enough respect for me to address me as the adult I am.
Liz says:
Jul 31, 2012
I’m kind of a literature snob and so I totally feel the women who are offended and frustrated by this list, but not all of these books are awful. P&P is a classic, and I’ve re-read it at several different points in my life. It means something totally different to me now, at 25, than it did when I first read it at 13. Joy Luck Club is fantastic, as is The Girl’s Guide to Hunting and Fishing. So while I don’t so much see myself picking up Confessions of a Shopaholic, I’d say don’t write the whole list off just because some of the choices are unfortunate and un-challenging.
And, thank you, I will write my own book list! I’m trying to read more books written by women. On my list:
The Handmaid’s Tale
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The Bell Jar
House of Mirth
Gigi (I’m going to give it a shot in the original French
The Color Purple
Also, Atlas Shrugged is propaganda and Ayn Rand’s writing style is super-repetitive, so please stop recommending this book like it’s some brilliant, earth-shattering work of fiction. It’s not. It’s actually really poorly written. And reading it feels like verbally wrestling with someone who just keeps making the same flawed point over and over again without taking anyone else’s perspective into account. If you want to read Ayn Rand (I don’t know why you would, but if you want to), read The Fountainhead. It’s a better story and it’s not as propaganda-heavy.
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Crotchety Old 25-Year-Old Woman says:
Aug 4, 2012
Jesus H.
Your first problem is that you refer to women in their twenties as girls. Would you have created a list called “10 Books Every Boy Should Read in His Twenties”? No? Then stop infantilizing women. It is patently ridiculous and contributes to a culture that treats women as lesser.
Secondly, good job with Austen and Tan! Yay! Now go read some George Eliot, Charlotte Brontë, Arundhati Roy, Charlotte Perkins Gilman, and any of a thousand other fabulous women authors who recognize that women are capable of more than shopping.
Miranda says:
Aug 16, 2012
I understand your point, but that IS the point. This is a list of books for every GIRL to read in their twenties. If you are a woman in your twenties, you really don’t need this. But some people are still girls at age 29 and some are women at age 19. It’s really not directed at women.
M. Michelle says:
Aug 18, 2012
I’ve heard of some of these books and now I definitely have to read them! Thanks for the suggestions!
Ali says:
Aug 21, 2012
He’s Just Not That Into You – so true, every part of that book. I wish I’d read when I was 20 instead of 25! Get it, read it, love it!
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Hayley says:
Aug 26, 2012
The Girl’s Guide to Hunting and Fishing is one of the worst books I’ve ever read. I would not suggest it to anyone! The Shopaholic books are great to read and are lots of fun!
While I don’t think that everyone out there would love my top ten books, I do think that it’s really important to read in your twenties. Find what works for you! I love contemporary fiction, classics, history, memoirs, and food writing, but you may like fantasy, science, or romance. Read for pleasure after you graduate from college! Don’t let yourself get out of practice! It only gets harder to read as you get older, busier, more stressed or whatever!
now, the last five books I read and liked:
“Yes, Chef” by Marcus Samuelsson
“You Deserve Nothing” by Alexander Maksik
“The Marriage Plot” by Jeffrey Eugenides
“Sacre Bleu” by Christopher Moore
“Straight Up and Dirty” by Stephanie Klein
Happy reading!
Alicia says:
Aug 28, 2012
she’s come undone by wally lamb. never has a man written from the point-of-view of a woman so accurately. i’ve read it multiple times (along with his other books) and recommend it to any lady who loves to read.
Kristine says:
Sep 1, 2012
Oh my God! Stop being so damn judgmental. If you don’t like these suggestions then don’t read these books. It’s that simple. I’m 28 years old, married and a mother of a special needs child. Of course my taste in literature is going to be different from my 28 year old counterpart. Some of the books on this list appeal to me and some do not. That doesn’t dumb me down or make me better then anyone. It is an Internet list people. Pull on your big girl panties ad move on.
Tanya says:
Sep 6, 2012
Please keep in mind that this list is just a “suggestion” people and definitely not for everybody. If it’s not for you then create your own list and move on, but don’t bad mouth someone for suggesting something that helped them in some way just because it isn’t for you. The fact that you feel the need to bash the list tells me that you still have a lot of growing up and maturing to do.
I’m 54 and looked at this list because my niece pinned it on Pinterest. When I was in my early 20′s I didn’t have a clue where I was headed or how I was going to get there once I figured it out. Getting my act together happened by learning from the mistakes I made, the experiences I had and the choices I made.
calico says:
Sep 10, 2012
Except for Pride and Prejudice, this list is a pile of insulting crap.
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SMGB says:
Sep 17, 2012
Great list, thank you.
“Marry Him: The Case for Settling for Mr. Good Enough” by Lori Gottlieb was the best dating book ever! I am now HAPPILY married and this book gave me such a clear head. I think every single woman who is looking for long term after dating several men should read. And she’s very funny!
Danni says:
Sep 18, 2012
Seems like books you should read BEFORE you hit 20..I read the joy luck club freshman year of highschool and I didnt think Confessions of a Shopaholic was anythin my little sister couldnt handle..
Kat says:
Sep 19, 2012
Just ordered The Joy Luck Club by Amy Tan and The Girl’s Guide to Hunting and Fishing by Melissa Bank on amazon and am VERY excited to have some quality reading time
Thanks for the suggestions!
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Katrina says:
Sep 30, 2012
When I first read this list I thought it was very light and fluffy and I wondered why there wasn’t much in terms of deep literature. I wasn’t offended but I came to the comments looking for other suggestions that I was sure would be offered. What I wasn’t prepared for was the vitriol. I don’t think anything justifies the kind of attacks this list has received. You don’t like the books, okay, move on.
So I picked 20 something 20 everything and I skimmed through it. Some typographical errors aside it looked pretty good for what it was; a guidebook on how to find yourself and get what you want out of life. This list of books isn’t about profound works of literary art, it is meant for that segment of society that finds itself finished with university, trying to live life and realizing that not everything works like an episode of Friends or a romantic comedy. Sometimes what you want really isn’t what you want and while many young women are the superheroes who have it all together at 24, there are others who don’t. This list is for them. This list helps you feel okay if you aren’t quite ruling the world yet, if you’re still trying to figure it out, if you had it all and lost it. The list, at least the book I chose, let’s you take control when life happens.
It’s not Sylvia Plath or Ayn Rand and it isn’t trying to be.
Perhaps if the title were different the whole argument would have been avoided.
Elle says:
Oct 2, 2012
for all of you feminists raging about this list…it probably doesn’t mean anything to you because i’m sure you don’t have boyfriends, you’re probably not fashionable, and i doubt you have many friends, which is probably why this list of books doesn’t interest you. holy shit. life doesn’t have to be so deep all the time! you think because you only read sylvia plath that you’re a better woman? ha. good God. maybe if you dressed a little better, did your hair once in awhile, and didn’t take everything as a vendetta against the strength and intelligence of women, more people would like you, and you’d get farther in life. get over yourselves.
Morgan says:
Oct 6, 2012
You should be ashamed of yourself. Your life is better every single day because of the work of great feminists. You have insulted ALL women with your comments.
By the way, I am a feminist. I am 24 years old. I am also happily married to an attractive and successful husband. I wear designer clothes and I try to look beautiful and pulled together. I also have lots of friends. Shame on you, you nasty, small minded person.
Alina says:
Oct 6, 2012
Excellent reply Morgan! Could not have said it better myself!
And Elle, if it weren’t for feminists, you wouldn’t be able to write up your little trite response so please think of that next time you open your mouth. Besides, by the sounds of it, should’t you be out doing more important things like shopping with all of the friends you have? lol Don’t waste your time reading honey, leave that to us feminists and men folk.
ELLE says:
Oct 19, 2012
Oh gosh…you girls don’t like it when people make assumptions about you? Then perhaps you shouldn’t assume that women who read the books on this list are small minded and unintelligent. Are most of these books shallow and cheesy as fuck? Yepp. Obviously they’re not meant for deep thinking. As for the rest of what you said…it doesn’t matter. I don’t care. Don’t act like you’re not just as judgemental as I am.
LoriAnne says:
Jan 26, 2013
DONT OVERGENERALIZE WOMEN!!!!! Don’t say all women are insulted, Morgan..that is an overgeneralization on women and their uptight nature..and I for one am not insulted. Then again the comment is about not taking things too seriously…so that may have been the…ahhh nevermind… ::sighs::
katie says:
Oct 9, 2012
Just because this list is out there and these books are recommended does not imply that women are brainless and powerless. And just because certain books didn’t make the list doesn’t mean that we shouldn’t read them. Each of these books will mean something different to everyone. Let it all go. No one said if you read these you’ll be an idiot and just because these aren’t “your kind of books” doesn’t mean they won’t be for someone else. No one is judging you for the books you read.
Carmen H. says:
Oct 9, 2012
It amazes me the classlessness of some of my more “intellectual” peers. Casting judgment and spreading hate are NOT classy, ladies!! If you don’t agree with the list, fine. MOVE ON with your life and leave the tackiness that exudes your fingertips to the immature. Not everyone has the same tastes. TO EACH THEIR OWN, my friends! Hope you all have a wonderful day and keep reading!
PS… I especially love that P&P is on this list. Being my favorite book for years, I read it almost once a month!!
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Lyndsey says:
Oct 13, 2012
Woah. I’m an 18 year old freshman in college engaged to a Marine who’s currently deployed and this appeared (like many others apparently) on my pinterest board so I decided to check it out. I love the list, not because I’m necessarily interested in all of the titles or because I need help or anything, I’m just simply looking for a distraction from worrying while my man is overseas and I feel like some of these books could give me that. I read through all of these comments and I have to say, wow. It’s a list of books. I don’t feel like it should cause so much stress in people’s life. If a list of books is your biggest worry in life or your biggest offense then I don’t know what to tell you because I don’t want to say anything negative. But I think that some people need to step back and realize that this is just a recommend list of books, no one is forcing you to read anything or even read the list. If you read the list and don’t like it, say to yourself “oh this list is terrible” and move on. In the grand scheme of things it doesn’t matter. Some people will read these books and find something to identify with that could help them. Others may just need something to do (like myself). I was just surprised by all of the women on here who make negative comments and bash on someone’s opinion. Everyone has a different story and no one should judge them for that. No one really knows what any other person has been through. And if their story has led them to this list of books then more power to them.
Gabrielle says:
Oct 16, 2012
Admittedly I haven’t read many of these but I will definitely have to check them out! I like books that remind me there is a little magic in the world, that embraces relationships and events in your life, that radiate positivity. Some of my favorite girly books are Love Walked In an Belong to Me by Marisa De Los Santos. I am on her third, Falling Together, now. Also, I would recommend The Girl Who Chased The Moon and Garden Spells by Sarah Addison Allen, as well as anything written by Paulo Coehlo. The Great Gatsby is a great classic to revisit as well. Dave Eggers translates the inner chaos of emotions and perspective better than anyone I have ever read. Thanks for all the suggestions and I can’t wait to curl up with them!
Jess says:
Oct 18, 2012
This list is honestly offensive because it’s so steroetypical. As my boyfriend put it: ‘that list is like if they made a list of all the books 20 year old men ahould read and it was just an issue of Sports Illustrated with Michael Jordan on the cover, and a cordless drill.’
LISA says:
Oct 18, 2012
It is very upsetting that the girls defending this list don’t realize its author is talking down to them. Assuming that because you’re women you don’t read often or have the attention span to choose a book over a movie, or have any interests that have real substance. They’re assuming you’re only able to consume this fluff. They’re selling you short. They are absolutely disrespecting you with these assumptions and you rush to defend them while spewing insults on anyone who points out their error. I’m a woman, I think women are better than this list. I believe women are capable of reading and comprehending more difficult subject matter than shopping, BFF problems, and boyfriend troubles. You are selling yourselves short, you’re not your clothes, you’re not your make-up, you’re not your relationship or lack there of. You are a woman, a person, with thoughts, opinions, and feelings about real things. You are capable of being so deep, please don’t fall back on the ” it’s just for fun” excuse as a means of remainig shallow.
Top university educated says:
Feb 8, 2013
The BFF problems and boy friend troubles are experiences that a lot of young people are going through (and not the dumb teenage oh she’s not talking to me or my boyfriend of a week broke up with me over text). It’s the my boyfriend of years that we were living with or engaged to type relationship just ended and my best friend is now gone type of things that it is nice to read about. After college most people are left alone. Where once you were surrounded by friends now everyone goes to different graduate schools or has jobs in different states. When everything falls apart I want to read about someone that it all happened to. I don’t want some book to analyze or find deeper meanings. It’s not talking down. It is talking to the situation.
Becca says:
Oct 18, 2012
“The Girl’s Guide to Hunting and Fishing by Melissa Bank.
For those of you girls who are wincing at the title, you can relax… it actually has nothing to do with hunting or fishing.”
Phew. For a moment there I was, like, totally worried I was going to break a nail.
C. says:
Oct 22, 2012
I take it from the use of the term “girls” that this book list is geared towards females under the age of 18?
britta says:
Oct 25, 2012
A must read for woman (and men) in their twenties is: “The Defining Decade:Why Your Twenties Matter”. I recommend it very highly!
catcat says:
Oct 28, 2012
i’m throwing out there “He’s Just Not That In To You.” valuable advice for recognizing the right guy and not wasting your precious time with the wrong ones.
Mel says:
Oct 29, 2012
I’m out of my 20s now, but a book that helped me tremendously was JEMIMA J by Jane Green. It encouraged me to both take responsibility for my health and happiness AND to let go of the images of both that society champions. A tricky feat, but Green accomplished it.
cocoa_goddess says:
Mar 31, 2013
I love, love, love Jemima J. A turning point in my life like yours.
Kalhan :D says:
Oct 30, 2012
Don’t you wish you could take out all the bashing from this enormous list of comments and just keep the additional book recommendations some fantastic people decided to add on? Might make this into a really interesting list for all readers!
I can’t stop reading the ‘Song of Ice and Fire’ series (Game of Thrones)… I need to escape from my medical school textbooks and it does the trick (and filled the gap after I finished the ‘Sword of Truth’ series – I named my kitten after Kalhan if there are any fans out there!) Funny that I really only used to read historical fiction or non-fiction before I started med school, now I can barely touch it… friiiiiied brain (which is why I am on here babbling now… personality disorders and ODD/CD has gotten the best of me for tonight!)
Joanne says:
Oct 30, 2012
I was expecting books with more substance.
Danielle says:
Oct 31, 2012
I know. I was expecting to see authors like Virgina Wolf or even Sylvia Plath. I’m not sure this list is directed at true literature lovers…
Amanda says:
Oct 31, 2012
Life’s too short for me to always be a “deep thinker,” sometimes I just want a break from reality with a book that makes me laugh, not over think. I know that some people don’t feel they need a break and should always think deeply and there are others that find their break from reality through something other than books but that’s okay! We are all different! It doesn’t make one person smarter just because they read differently, but saying cruel things does make you meaner.
And if you are offended about being called a girl, that is okay, we all have things that rub us the wrong way or that we feel convicted on, but please understand that there are some WOMEN (like myself) that do not take offense to being called a girl. I work with 7th grade girls and they are fun, free thinking, up for anything, and beautiful, so by all means, please call me a girl! I don’t feel the need to always be a sophiscated, grown up adult, being a girl can be invigorating.
We all have the right to our opinions and many of us have a reason for thinking that way, however no opinion gives you the right to be hurtful. I’ll read some of these books and others I won’t, no need to be mean.
macy says:
Oct 31, 2012
you are totally undermining the intellect of a twenty-something female. i’m disappointed that this list appeared on my search of ‘best contemporary novels must read’
Stephanie says:
Oct 31, 2012
Do I agree with or relate to this whole list? No. Did some of the titles resonate with goings on in my life? Yes. Did many of the others make me think of other people I know, also in my age group? Yes.
It’s not an offensive list, it’s just a list of books, some of which cover topics many 20something women deal with. If you don’t identify with it, you’re not one of those people.
Nancy Smith says:
Nov 11, 2012
Think every twenty-something woman should be reading Looking for Mr. Goodbar and all the short stories collections by John O’Hara (such as:
The Horse Knows the Way). I don’t see the point of being “offended/insulted” by this list. It you have examined the concept and drawn your own conclusion, well, then you own it and there is no need to share. Offer an alternative reading perhaps?
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hanabira says:
Nov 27, 2012
It’s pretty obvious that this is a list for girls who don’t have a habit of reading (or girls who like chick-lit). While the titles mentioned are mostly fluff and not books I would want to read, I’d much rather see girls reading something than nothing at all. Everyone leads different lives so the things we like and our level of exposure to reading may be different. Someday these titles may build them up to better reads. Toss a Shakespeare at someone for their first read in years and that might just turn them off reading forever.
I do get how this list is offensive though – I felt a little disappointed and offended at first too (and scrolling down to find that I’m not the only one offended brought a kind of comfort, to be honest). I guess we just don’t like the stereotype the author of the post puts us in with her comment that this is a list of books EVERY girl in her twenties should read?
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Ginny says:
Nov 28, 2012
I’m sorry, but if anyone considers P&P “chick lit” they are reading it wrong! What’s wrong with chick lit anyway. It is a great way to convey some pretty heavy themes in a way that doesn’t overwhelm everyone. I also think that women’s twenties vary dramatically – I am 24, married, and just finished grad school while some of my friends have very different lives. I read heavier stuff as well as light reads. I however, hats reading Rand and Plath because I don’t like them. My advice is get a library card, and read as many books as you can…”chick lit” or not.
STEPH says:
Dec 2, 2012
Why is everyone so judgmental on here?! If you like the list, you like it. If you don’t like the list, then you don’t. Guess what? I’m a well read, smart, 20-something who also likes Cosmo and expensive shoes… judging people is overrated. Move on…
Michele says:
Dec 6, 2012
I was so happy to find this thread! I am always looking for age appropriate book recommendations. I think I can safely say I am over the hunger games, twilight, teeny bopper era that has monopolized the book market. Thank you for doing this
I have a fantastic book recommendation (one I just recently read). The book is called “Until Brazil” by author Bethe Lee Moulton. It was a book that I couldn’t put down and made me smile through-out. The best comparison would be “Eat Pray Love.” It’s about a woman, Beth, who is facing a bit of a rut in life…job isn’t going anywhere…married but restless. She decides to go on a business trip to Brazil in hopes of a promotion and in doing so falls in love with the culture, the lifestyle and the people! A book of personal transformation and there is even an unexpected love story. I love books about travel (especially with a female that I can relate to!). I hope you give it a chance – http://www.untilbrazil.com/
Spread the happiness!
Thanks for sharing the books you love
Well Read Feminist says:
Dec 12, 2012
I have an incredibly strong problem with this list not just because these poor examples ( except for Pride and Prejudice) of books actually made a list of books for women to read, but also because of the author’s authoritarian approach. No, person who made the comment about her just suggesting these books. She is actually making a list that women of 20 something years should read. The lack of strong female characters in these books is sickening. Women of my age should not be looking up to stupid characters who are struggling through superficial want or self-pitying relationships. We should be reading about women who have worked with nothing, struggled through circumstances that were beyond their control, women who have something to teach us. And I for one have conducted a list( to myself, personally. I’m not going to tell you all have to read this, like that sorry excuse of an author who conducted this list) of what I would consider a better list of books that have strong, powerful, and relatable female role models. So go ahead, 23 year olds. If you must look up to characters in literature that only matter in the world of fashion or ill- timed friendships, fine. I personally wish and hope that my generation of women will eventually stop being so dumb, and actually give credit to the feminists who deserve it.
Bobbie says:
Dec 14, 2012
These are way too superficial and seem to be all about shopping and boyfriends…. ladies like me in our twenties should be getting more from books; like how to be courageous, confident, ambitious, smart, etc. This is disappointing.
Bobbie says:
Dec 14, 2012
p.s. does anyone acutally say “talking on the phone with your bestie” and do people still do the whole my boyfriend broke up with me let’s eat ben and jerry’s? good god…
Aubrey says:
Dec 17, 2012
Oh my I loved girls guide to hunting and fishing. I stumbled upon it on accident and loved every page of it.
Belle says:
Dec 18, 2012
Already read half of these in my teens
Heather says:
Dec 18, 2012
The first book/series I can remember reading was The Orphan Train books in 4th grade. From then on, I couldn’t resist reading the books on our required summer reading lists. To this day my all time favorite book is Fahrenheit 451. After graduating high school, I wasn’t sure what path I would take and so I went to my county college for the basics. I was so lost and felt like a failure because most of my friends went away to college and knew what they wanted to study. I began looking for a fun book to read, nothing too involved, and stumbled upon Maureen Johnson. I absolutely LOVED her book 13 Little Blue Envelopes. I would say it is Teen/Young Adult, and am glad I read it at 19. I first borrowed it from the library and as soon as I had finished reading, I bought it. It gave me adventure when I felt stuck, and helped me find the strength inside myself to walk away from an unhealthy relationship. It also encouraged me to pursue my ultimate dream and study Music Theater. I have since graduated with a B.M. in theater and am on my way to a career on Broadway. I still read it from time to time and am 25 now. After I explore some new books from this list as well as suggestions from commenters, I will begin reading it again. I can’t wait to find more books worthy of reading over and over.
cocoa_goddess says:
Mar 31, 2013
13 Blue Envelopes was so good. I couldn’t wait til she got to the next one. What an adventure!
Lauren says:
Dec 22, 2012
What has this world come to that we are now not just putting down each other’s opinions in real life but more on the internet.. and a book suggestion page for that matter?! Jeeze, there is just no getting a long anymore.. Merry Christmas.. or not
Jen says:
Dec 24, 2012
There is no need to insult each other. People people will have their own opinions throughout life whether we like or not and we are all grown women here. I find this list kind of boring, personally. But that it is my opinion. I like to read Jane Austen, but am not big on self-help books. I am excited to read Life of Pi, Cloud Atlas, and a few Kurt Vonnegut and Jack Kerouac books that I have picked up. I am currently reading The Bell Jar..and I absolutely recommend it.
Alina says:
Jan 3, 2013
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Jess says:
Jan 8, 2013
I am 24 years old, mechanical design engineer for an oil company, and some what have my life together. I don’t need self-help books…but I enjoy reading them. I believe every one could use a bit of self-help. As for the Chic-lit books, i LOVE them. They are an easy fun read after a long day of work. I am very upset with all of you that think this list is insulting to the women population and that girls reading this don’t hagve their life together. As “educated and sophisticated women” don’t you think you could be open minded? There are women in their 20s that enjoy light reading. After a day of dealing with technical reports and designs its good to crawl in bed with a fun easy read. Actually one of these books has actually inspired me to tackle on more things in my life. I have a full schedule of volunteering events, board meetings at work, projects, friends, and family events to keep me busy…and I use lists like these to help me choose fun books for my age. If you are looking for classical books maybe you should look somewhere else. There is no need for all of you to be offended by this list. If you are offended by this list then I hope that one day you will have thick enough skin to face the fact that others have different opinions then you. To add to that thought…maybe you should read one of these self-help books on becoming independent and strong, so when people have different opinions than you, you wont be so offended.
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ali says:
Jan 20, 2013
There are so many amazing books out there. The only book deserving to be on this list is Pride and Prejudice.
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LoriAnne says:
Jan 26, 2013
Womp womp. I’m not ::in a super pretentious voice:: “vapid” or “a stupid little air-head” but I think this list is well put together. Books seem like they are good for hanging out and reading for fun, (which if you look at the title….yeah, FUN BOOKS…apparently all these very literate, POWERFUL women can’t infer from a title that these books are not meant to “classify our sex”)…and when you are busy and actually doing things with your life and in the process of discovering yourself and growing, which some people here have obviously completely mastered, sometimes a “stupid airhead” book takes away from all the seriousness of life and if you learn something about yourself or a life lesson when reading it, I think that’s a win win.
Ugh, sorry that my sex is being classified by a bunch of uptight, snobbery in all this commentary. More offended by that than the book list.
Thanks for putting this together! I may snag a few of these!
LORIANNE(vapid airhead bitch) says:
Jan 26, 2013
ALSO! Eat Pray Love. I have read that book about 6 times now and I love everything about it. I suggest you read it, even if you’ve seen the movie.
Vienne says:
Jan 29, 2013
“Incognito” By Gregory Murphy….AMAZING
Stacey B. says:
Feb 3, 2013
I am a self-professed chick-lit, romance novel addict
Not to say that is all I read but I am the stereotypical girl in a bath with a glass of wine and a feel good love story! I was so happy to come across this list of girly reads! I just finished a series of three books (The Look to the Future Series) by author Mary Metcalfe (http://www.lakefrontmuse.ca/). The books are “Winds of Change” “New Beginnings” and “Road to Tomorrow.” Mary Metcalfe’s writing can be compared to authors Nora Roberts and Jodi Picoult. They are all stories about second chances, dealing with loss and starting over again and allowing love and happiness into your life! I think all of her characters are easy to relate to, flawed, and loveable. I hope you enjoy them as much as I did!!
Ali says:
Feb 8, 2013
I am 24 recent college grad no job struggling to get ito graduate school and broke up with the one I thought I was goin to marry right after graduation. I am looking for true stories of people in my same situation and have stories to tell. I am not looking for the deeper meaning or analyzing anything. I already have enough anxiety so I don’t need to be reading any thrillers or have any “physical reactions” to what I am reading. I want light reading that is going to comfort me. A romantic novel? Why would I want to read about a fake romance when my own just went south? Yes I do have a separate list of classics that I plan to read as well but you he to change things up every once in awhile. If you don’t agree with the list don’t read it. Simple as that. But don’t put the people down or think less of them for thinking that these books may be helpful or good to read at this point in their lives.
Excuse any spelling errors and lack of correct grammar. I am typing on a phone.
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Jennifer says:
Mar 3, 2013
Boy meets Girl is a really good one for the whole idea of dating to courtship, and putting it all in God’s prospective. Even if you aren’t Christian it’s a great book for a healthy relationship!!
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Melanie C. says:
Mar 30, 2013
How to Be A Woman by Caitlin Moran! Seriously laughed until I cried.
cocoa_goddess says:
Mar 31, 2013
Wow! Completely shocked by the harsh comments posted here.
“If you can’t say something nice, then don’t say anything at all.” -Thumper
Don’t like the list – go find another one or make your own.
I am 44 years old. I have a beautiful 22 year old daughter. I raised her on my own from when i was 2 1/2 months pregnant. She is a college graduate with an AA degree in Graphic Design from a Private College in Los Angeles, CA. I did it all by myself.
So if it makes me feel good that someone suggested a list of books for a “GIRL” to read, then dagnabit, i”m going to feel good and smile big.
Sheesh! One day you will be so sick and tired of being called Ma’am, that you will not be offended by a general remark and get called a girl again.
When that day comes you will think of this post and just shake your head.
I’m just saying!
Mary Lipetzky says:
Apr 19, 2013
I agree that all of the books on this list are must reads although I would say the one exception is “Confessions of a Shopaholic.” Maybe it’s just me but the main character was just too flat a character and she achieved very little in the course of the novel except complain about her lack of self-control. I would advise it for beach reading but it doesn’t have the substance of the other books on the list.
netta says:
Apr 30, 2013
I’m attractive, beautiful, stylish and in great shape. But i , unlike a majority of the girls who defend this list, like to be intellectually challenged. I am 26, but really mature for my age and went through a lot of those bf/bff problems as a teen. This list would’ve been more suitable and helpful when I was, like, 17, and had no real depth or problems in life. So sorry to offend anyone with my “pretentious” need to use my brain. By the way, can’t anyone use a something other than high horse to and such? Either way I don’t care. I’m not going through any coming of age problems any time soon. The list sucks and I shouldn’t feel pressured by bullying brats who think this list is gold. ANYONE can comment. Not just people who like this drivel!
lillybridge says:
May 16, 2013
I’m reading so many books like:
I am number four and Twilght and Beastly they all are good books.
I’m not stupid I think every one need to start reading and getting the books that are on sail at the library cuz one day all the library’s will be closed.
i have so many book the i got on sail that i did not read them yet lol.
will that’s just what I think lol.